Someone asked me a serious question the other day, and of course, it has to do with a guy. The guy, she says, has been being really sneaky. Whenever he gets a phone call, he heads out side or to the bathroom to talk. He refuses to let her use his phone or his computer, and if he does, he erases everything before he gives it to her. When he does give it to her, he stays by her until she is DONE with the phone so she can give it to him.....
Naira's Advice:
Like any story, there can be two sides. Let's start with the man's side. Giving him the benefit of the doubt, he might just be planning a surprise for the young lady. He might be getting ready to propose and he wants it to be as much of a surprise as possible.....Now, coming from the woman's intuition side, he sounds like he's cheating. When a man suddenly becomes suspicious and sneaky about his posessions and doesn't want you in his things, he's hiding something. Something that he knows you would be upset about if you saw. The man, though, would prefer to hide and erase all evidence so that you don't find anything. Like any other issue, the best thing to do to solve it is to confront him. Let him know your feelings and tell him that if he is doing something then he needs to tell you right now then to let you find out yourself because it will be worst. If he continues to deny everything, then it just might be time for you to your own detective. Let no man take you for a fool because while you at home being the good GF, he's out letting another girl take care of him.
Love always,
NaiNai
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